On this occasion, I wanted to share with you a very good exercise, with regard to personal improvement. The best time to do it, is when you are worried about something that it is happening. Below I explain the exercise: * keep in mind what you is concerned and from there, remember the things that have happened to him before. Note, that the events must be related to what concerns him. Now, try to establish the causal relationship between these events. Try to see that opportunities have been generated these events to cause what you are concerned about. * Meditate thereon.
What was your responsibility? Does this ready / to be in charge of it? The idea of this exercise is to get us out of this vicious cycle of blame the others for what happens to us. True, many times, others having to do with our lives and decisions, but at least, as at least a 50% corresponds to us (or more), but rather than take charge of our lives, of our decisions, we prefer to give that power to others. Each one is responsible for your life and create for her what you want to. But to do this, you have to work. This exercise can be considered the first step to get ahead. If we can realize the problem, we can fix it. Original author and source of the article.