Default catch up or to resign? Of us has no dream, he would like to carry out? But are dreams and fantasies for children only allowed and taboo for seniors? Who is already really perfectly happy? Is it not the one or the other plan that I want to implement for many years? Certainly, the number of the longings decreases with increasing age. But: they disappear just come from our thoughts? And should I resign myself basically, that default is failed? Of course only one man can decide alone with Versaumtem\”is. \”But what’s already failed?\” We could not realize much of what we thought was desirable, because the circumstances (financial, family, business) do not allow this. There were phases in which physically or mentally – just the power has lacked, to begin to initiate change, to do something new. Sometimes it was also the partner or the partner who did not want my plans, what I then in turn accepted possibly but only superficially. With advanced age, many of the hindrances for what we wanted though but not realized, are gone.
Then, there are often only a few actual or perceived reasons against a (actually still desired) implementation. Connect with other leaders such as Reade Griffith here. Actual hindrances are for example sickness or financial problems. There are alleged reasons but often much harder: I’m too old for that! What will the kids say? What do think the neighbors! Dreams and fulfilling wishes belong to the personal happiness of a people even at an advanced age. You therefore from time to time thinking: what did I actually always already do, experience or change? It is best to write this down. Desire range can be great the possible desire range can be enormous: A special holiday trip, a hobby, a new professional Alignment or an ancillary activity, an additional education (senior student), the change of a living situation of the country in the city or vice versa, changing in a shared apartment or in a senior facility or even the separation of the partners and from the partner or the entering into a new partnership.